Mene v Sokola, 2024 WL 4227788 (S.D. New York, 2024)[Poland][Petition denied][Grave risk of harm]

 

 

In Mene v Sokola, 2024 WL 4227788 (S.D. New York, 2024) the district court denied the Petition of Sebastien Funez Mene which sought the repatriation from the United States to Poland of the parties’ only child, a minor referred to herein as “BFS,” who is alleged to have been unlawfully removed from Poland by Respondent in early 2022.

 

The district court explained that throughout these Hague Convention proceedings, there emerged incontrovertible evidence of Petitioner’s severe, unrelenting psychological and physical abuse of Respondent, often executed in the presence of BFS. These proceedings laid bare numerous instances of Petitioner’s psychological and, to a lesser degree, physical abuse of BFS himself, as well as of other children and animals. Despite Petitioner’s repeated (and at times perjurious) disavowals of the same, evidence surfaced of Petitioner’s extensive criminal history in France and elsewhere, including convictions stemming from years of stalking and harassment of former intimate partners and their families; this criminal history betrayed Petitioner’s propensity to disobey court mandates generally and protective orders in particular. Petitioner revealed himself to be an unreformed narcissist, incapable of acknowledging, let alone appreciating, the consequences of his actions, who has audaciously pursued (mostly groundless) legal actions against Respondent in this and other courts in total disregard for his own misconduct. The Court denied the Petition, finding that repatriation of BFS to Poland would expose the child to a grave risk of harm pursuant to Article 13(b) of the Hague Convention.

 

The Court explained that the only trial testimony the Court found wholly incredible was that of Petitioner. Petitioner repeatedly, and egregiously, lied to this Court throughout these proceedings, including at trial. The Court found that the degree and consistency of Petitioner’s dishonesty with this Court constitutes grounds for the blanket discrediting of his trial testimony.

 

Petitioner Sebastien Funez Mene was born in France in or around 1973. He lived most of his life in France. In 2015, after meeting Respondent, Petitioner moved to Poland and has resided there ever since. Respondent Kaja Sokola was born in Wroclaw, Poland on May 4, 1986. At the age of thirteen, she began modeling professionally; she thereafter lived in New York City “on and off” between the ages of sixteen and twenty-three.  At twenty-three, Respondent returned to Poland to attend the University of Social Science in Wroclaw, where she received a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology, completing her studies in 2014. The Respondent was a certified addiction and co-dependence psychotherapist and Gestalt psychotherapist.  Respondent had a serious heart condition, namely, an aortic aneurysm, and suffers from arrhythmia.  The parties’ son, BFS, was born in Poland in 2019; today, he was around five-and-a-half years old. BFS had general developmental delays for which he received a variety of special services. Petitioner and Respondent met in May 2015. the first time in person when Petitioner came to visit her in Warsaw, Poland in June 2015. Two days into his visit, Petitioner proposed to Respondent. Respondent happily accepted his proposal. Days later, on June 16, 2015, the pair were married in a church. Shortly after the wedding, Petitioner flew to Lyon, France, where he was then residing with his parents; though the sudden departure upset Respondent, Petitioner assured her that he “had an urgent and important case” that required him to get back to France immediately. In August 2015, Respondent flew to Lyon to rejoin Petitioner. She expressed a desire to meet his family, but Petitioner declined to introduce her to his parents, saying he “didn’t have the time.” After two hours in Lyon, Petitioner drove the couple over 1,700 kilometers back to Warsaw, Poland.  Petitioner thereafter moved into Respondent’s Warsaw apartment, and the parties resided together for the majority of their relationship, with the exclusion of a brief period of separation in 2020-2021. The petitioner had not returned to France since the August 2015 trip. Petitioner underwent surgery on his back shortly after arriving in Poland in September 2015. The pair then had a civil wedding ceremony in a city just outside of Warsaw. At the time of the wedding, Respondent was twenty-nine years old, and Petitioner was forty-two. In 2018, Respondent became pregnant with BFS, as a result of Petitioner’s sexual abuse. The parties stipulated to the following facts: “On March 14, 2022, BFS’s country of ‘habitual residence’ was Poland as used within the context of the [ ] Convention.”  “On March 14, 2022, Petitioner [ ] had rights of custody as defined by Article 5 of the [ ] Convention.”  “On March 14, 2022, Petitioner [ ] would have been exercising his rights of custody pursuant to Article 3(b) of the [ ] Convention if not for the retention of BFS.”  “The retention of BFS on March 14, 2022, was wrongful pursuant to Article 3 of the Hague Abduction Convention.”  The Court found that Petitioner has established a prima facie case for the repatriation of BFS under the Convention.

 

The Court found that throughout the parties’ relationship, Petitioner was psychologically, financially, and physically abusive toward Respondent.  The Court explained that Article 13(b) of the Convention relieves a court from the obligation to order repatriation where “there is a grave risk that ... return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation.” Hague Convention, art. 13(b). Pursuant to ICARA, to invoke the so-called “grave risk exception” or “grave risk defense,” a responding parent must establish by “clear and convincing evidence” that such a risk exists. 22 U.S.C. § 9003(e)(2)(A). Determination of whether a respondent has made this showing is “fact-intensive,” and courts in this Circuit are advised to interpret the grave risk exception “narrowly, lest it swallow the rule.” Souratgar v. Lee, 720 F.3d 96, 103-104 (2d Cir. 2013).  To qualify as a “grave risk of harm” for the purposes of Article 13(b), “the potential harm to the child must be severe.” Swett, 2024 WL 2034713, at *41 (quoting Souratgar, 720 F.3d at 103) (alterations adopted). In this Circuit, the kinds of situations that constitute a grave risk of harm are those in which “the child faces a real risk of being hurt, physically or psychologically, as a result of repatriation,” as opposed to those in which “repatriation might cause inconvenience or hardship, eliminate certain educational or economic opportunities, or not comport with the child’s preferences[.]” Blondin v. Dubois, 238 F.3d 153, 162 (2d Cir. 2001). Further, whether a grave risk of harm exists depends “not only [on] the magnitude of the potential harm but also the probability that the harm will materialize.” Souratgar, 720 F.3d at 103 (citing Van De Sande v. Van De Sande, 431 F.3d 567, 570 (7th Cir. 2005)).

 

Petitioner’s abuse of Respondent compelled a finding that BFS was at grave risk of harm, as did the facts that BFS had been, and would be, exposed to that abuse. Petitioner’s history of difficulty with impulse control, predilection to intense fits of anger, and physical and psychological abuse of Respondent, often in the presence of BFS, was thoroughly supported by the record. So too was Petitioner’s psychological and, at times, physical abuse of BFS himself. The Court found that Respondent had sufficiently invoked the grave risk defense. See, e.g., Davies v. Davies, 717 F. App’x 43, 48-49 (2d Cir. 2017) (summary order) (affirming grave risk determination “premised on overwhelming evidence of [petitioner]’s extreme violence and uncontrollable anger, as well as his psychological abuse of [respondent] over many years, much of which was witnessed by [the child], and the fact that [petitioner] frequently screamed and yelled at [the child] for no legitimate reason”).

 

The finding in Davies v. Davies is illuminative, wherein the Second Circuit affirmed the trial court’s grave risk determination. In that case, the record demonstrated that the petitioner was quick to anger at even the slightest of inconveniences, such as when the respondent “didn’t do the dishes or if the bedroom was messy or if there were clothes on the floor.”  In those instances, the petitioner would scream in the respondent’s face and slam and punch doors. The record also supported the fact that the couple’s child had been a frequent witness to the petitioner’s abuse of the respondent, and that, in some instances, the petitioner had screamed at the child himself. And while the petitioner had never punched or beaten the respondent, he did exhibit violence towards others, including animals, On that record, the Second Circuit affirmed a finding of grave risk in a summary order. The petitioner in Davies and Petitioner in this case exhibited remarkably similar behavior patterns. The record showed that Petitioner’s violent behavior, which included pushing, grabbing, kicking, and hitting Respondent, exceeded that found in Davies. The record also featured several additional aggravating factors not present in Davies, namely, the few isolated instances of Petitioner’s physical abuse of BFS, as well as Petitioner’s well-established criminal history of obsessively targeting former romantic partners. Accordingly, the Court found that the repatriation of BFS to Poland would expose him to a real risk of both psychological and physical harm, and as such is inappropriate.

 

The Court’s analysis of the harm posed by the repatriation of BFS did not end there. The Second Circuit acknowledged that a grave risk of harm, and specifically, psychological harm, can exist where an abducted child with a cognitive disability has been enrolled in specific developmental programming in his new country and removing him from that programming would result in “a severe loss of the skills that he had successfully developed.” Ermini, 758 F.3d at 166. In that decision, facing for the first time the question of whether “this kind of psychological harm” fell within the scope of Article 13(b), the Second Circuit answered in the affirmative. The Second Circuit further noted that “sister signatories [to the Hague Convention] have found the risk of harm ... to be sufficiently grave” in similar circumstances. Here, as the Court detailed in its BFS haf general developmental delays for which he receives extensive therapy, including special education services and speech-language therapy. Moreover, since arriving in the United States, there has been a meaningful improvement in BFS’s “emotional, intellectual, [and] motor skills,” inter alia. Furthermore, as Dr. Fernandez opined, “[a]ny disruption to [this programming] would risk the development of mental health symptoms [ ] such as anxiety and depression,” which “could disrupt [BFS’s] progress.” While the Court did not opine herein on whether BFS’s loss of access to the services he currently received would, in and of itself, constitute a grave risk of harm upon which the Article 13(b) exception may be invoked, the Court did find that such loss supported the Court’s overall finding herein that repatriation poses a grave risk of harm to BFS.

 

The Court found that  Ameliorative Measures Available in Poland Are Not Sufficient to Protect BFS. The Court heard extensive testimony regarding the Polish legal system and its ability to combat domestic abuse. Collectively, the parties’ experts painted a picture of a substantial, multifaceted system of protection for victims of domestic violence in Poland, albeit one that, in practice, operates slowly and inefficiently and bears substantial blind spots, particularly when it comes to the protection of minor children. This finding alone left the Court uncertain that the Polish justice system could eliminate the grave risk of harm posed to BFS by repatriation. The Court found that Petitioner was unlikely to abide by any protective order put in place by a Polish court upon BFS’s repatriation, rendering the salutary effect of such a measure dubious for the purposes of the grave risk analysis. See also Walsh, 221 F.3d at 221 (holding that although the court had “no doubt that [courts of the home country] would issue appropriate protective orders,” repatriation was denied in part because the spouse’s habitual disobedience of such orders would render them ineffective). The Court emphasized Petitioner’s total unwillingness to accept any responsibility for his actions and his lack of understanding of (or reflection on) the same. Petitioner himself described this case as a “domestic violence fairy tale.” (“There have been no incidents of domestic violence perpetrated by Petitioner upon Respondent, in the presence of BFS or otherwise.”)). At trial, Petitioner largely denied having any role in his and Respondent’s marital issues: for instance, he testified that he never started an argument with Respondent after the birth of BFS (a period of almost three years before Respondent fled to the United States). Moreover, when Petitioner did admit that some incident described by Respondent or Respondent’s witnesses had occurred in at least some respect, Petitioner sought to downplay what had happened or to justify his actions, or proceeded to give unresponsive testimony instead. (proceeding to tell a story about a different dog when asked about the incident in which he yelled at Respondent’s mother for feeding the parties’ dogs)).

Because Petitioner refused to accept fault or responsibility for his actions, the Court was doubtful that any therapeutic interventions available in Poland would deter Petitioner from continued abuse or reduce the potential harm to BFS posed by repatriation. See Morales v. Sarmiento, No. 23 Civ. 281 (KPE), 2023 WL 3886075, at *13 (S.D. Tex. June 8, 2023) (finding ameliorative measures insufficient where the petitioner “expressed neither remorse nor reflection about his actions”).